The Embodied Erotic Experience
An intimate, high-touch, personalised 1:1 Mentorship container.
An 8-week private 1:1 mentorship for conscious, high-achieving women who are ready to move beyond understanding themselves intellectually and into a deeper, more embodied relationship with their bodies, pleasure, desires and sexuality.
A space to slow down.
To listen.
To feel.
To explore.
To reconnect.
And ultimately, to come home to yourself in the most intimate of ways.
Because the goal isn't to become a different woman.
It's to become more deeply, fully and unapologetically yourself.
“Ruby’s capacity to help me unfold and tap into my body was nothing like I had ever experienced. I was able to melt into the journey and be totally unaware of anything else going on.” - C
You've done the inner work. Now it's time to embody it.
You've spent years learning about yourself.
You've explored your patterns, your wounds, your conditioning and your relationships.
You've become healthier, more conscious, more self-aware and deeply cognisant of who you are as a woman.
And yet, when it comes to sex, intimacy and desire, you still feel disconnected, confused and disempowered, like it’s the one area of your life that doesn’t fulfil and nourish you.
You understand the why behind the challenges you experience in intimacy, but understanding why hasn't necessarily translated into sustainable change.
You know you're allowed to have boundaries, but struggle to recognise them in the moment.
You know you're allowed to receive pleasure, but find yourself staying in your head.
You know you want to feel more connected to your body, but aren't always sure how to get there.
You know you want to express your desires, but something still holds you back.
You know a lot. But you're ready to actually feel.
This is the gap we explore together.
Because there is a difference between understanding something intellectually and being able to embody it.
Reclaim your aliveness, reconnect to your body.
The Embodied Erotic Experience is an invitation to slow down, turn inward and develop a deeper relationship with the most intimate parts of yourself.
Your body.
Your sensations.
Your needs.
Your desires.
Your boundaries.
Your pleasure.
Your erotic self.
This work is about becoming more deeply you and learning how to deeply inhabit the juiciest parts of your life by learning to listen to the subtle ways your body communicates with you, developing trust in your own internal experience, and creating the capacity to feel more deeply connected, present and alive within your sexuality.
Because ultimately, this work goes beyond creating an extraordinary sex life.
It is about learning how to feel.
An opportunity to explore your sexuality from the inside out.
The Embodied Erotic Experience is my signature 1:1 mentorship for women who are ready to go deeper into their relationship with sex, intimacy, pleasure, desire and their bodies.
Over eight weeks, we'll explore your unique experiences, challenges and desires through a combination of Somatic Sex Coaching, sexological education, embodiment practices and holistic coaching.
This is not a one-size-fits-all program.
There is no prescribed version of what your sexuality should look like, how much you should want sex, how you should experience pleasure or who you should become.
Instead, I will meet you exactly where you are and support you to uncover what is true for you.
What does desire actually feel like in your body?
What allows you to feel safe enough to receive?
What do you genuinely need and desire?
What don't you want?
What happens when you stop performing and start inhabiting your authenticity?
What becomes possible when you trust your own experience?
We work slowly, gently and intentionally, with safety, sustainability and integration at the core.
There is often a misconception that sex coaching is primarily about the mechanics of sex and intimacy, and while yes, sometimes it can be, my approach goes much deeper.
The intention is to support you to create an internal environment that nurtures safety, embodiment and connection so that sex, intimacy and pleasure can feel more accessible, authentic and easeful.
If you're ready to bridge the gap between understanding what's happening and actually experiencing sustainable change, the Embodied Erotic Experience is designed for you.
Open up to receive deeper pleasure, deeper self-trust.
My approach is underpinned by three interconnected pillars:
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Understand your sexuality so you can make empowered choices.
If you feel like your sex education let you down, you are certainly not alone.
The vast majority of women have never received comprehensive education around their bodies, pleasure, desire, sex or how to create deep intimacy within their relationships.
Instead, we've had to navigate an overwhelming amount of information, messaging, expectations and cultural conditioning around what sex should look like.
Working with me gives you access to distilled, relevant sexological education that applies to you and your unique circumstances.
Rather than spending hours searching for answers amongst all of the noise, you'll have the opportunity to understand what is happening for you and why. Because knowledge can be incredibly empowering. But knowledge alone isn't always enough.
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Move from knowing to actually feeling.
You can understand something intellectually and still struggle to embody it.
You can know that you're allowed to receive pleasure, but find yourself unable to fully surrender into the experience.
You can know that you're allowed to have boundaries, but struggle to recognise them in the moment.
You can know that you want to feel more connected to your body, but still spend much of your intimate life in your head.
Somatic Sex Coaching invites you to move beyond simply thinking and talking about your sexuality and into a deeper awareness of your lived, embodied experience.
Together, we'll develop your capacity to notice sensation, recognise your body's signals and become more connected to what you are actually experiencing.
Your body holds so much wisdom.
And often, the deepest and most sustainable change comes from learning how to actually listen.
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Reconnect with the part of you that wants to feel fully alive.
Erotic aliveness is about so much more than sex.
I describe erotic aliveness as your internal furnace — your turn-on for life itself.
It is the culmination of your awakened sexual, creative and sensual energy. It is your desire and drive to pursue the things in life that turn you on. It is your capacity to experience pleasure, curiosity, desire, connection and vitality.
When you cultivate your erotic aliveness, you're not simply creating the capacity for more fulfilling sex.
You're creating the capacity to experience more of yourself. To inhabit your life more fully. With presence, pleasure, nourishment and vitality.
TOGETHER WE’LL EXPLORE:
Every woman's sexuality is unique, which means our work together will be completely personalised to you.
Depending on what you're navigating and what you want to create, our work may include exploring:
Your relationship with your body and how you experience sensation
Desire, arousal and changes in sexual desire
Pleasure and orgasm
Receiving, surrender and presence
Sexual confidence and expression
Your needs, desires and boundaries
Communication within intimacy and relationships
Sexual shame, conditioning and limiting beliefs
Patterns of performing, pleasing or abandoning yourself
Feeling safe enough to be present and connected
Reconnecting with sensuality and eroticism
The different expressions of your erotic self
Cultivating greater erotic aliveness within your sexuality and your life
There is no expectation that you arrive knowing exactly what you need.
Part of the process is discovering that together.
“Working with Ruby has genuinely changed my life. What started as a journey into intimacy has unfolded into something much bigger - her teachings on embodiment, sensuality, and the feminine have become a part of how I move through the world." - A
This is vulnerable work, it’s normal to feel unsure about opening yourself up. Book a free call with Ruby to feel into the work at your own pace.
WHAT BECOMES POSSIBLE WHEN YOU COMMIT TO THIS WORK:
Deepen your connection with your body
Learn to listen to the subtle ways your body communicates with you and develop a deeper understanding of how you experience desire, pleasure, safety, intimacy and connection.
Release sexual shame and conditioning
Untangle the shame, conditioning, beliefs and protective patterns that may be keeping you disconnected from your sexuality.
Create more space to experience your desires and express yourself within an intimate context with greater freedom and authenticity.
Feel more confident in your sexual expression
Feel more at home in yourself as a sexual being.
Develop the confidence to express your desires, boundaries and sensuality in ways that feel authentic, embodied and true to you.
Get clear on your needs, desires and boundaries
Develop a deeper awareness of what you truly want, what you don't want and what you need to feel safe, open and fulfilled in intimacy and beyond.
Begin to trust your own internal signals and communicate your needs with greater clarity and confidence.
Cultivate greater erotic aliveness
Reconnect with your sensuality, creativity, desire and life-force energy, allowing more pleasure, vitality and aliveness to move through your intimate life, your relationships and beyond.
Reconnect with your capacity for pleasure
Explore what allows you to feel more present, open, connected and receptive to deeper sensual and sexual experiences, both inside and outside of the bedroom.
Explore the full spectrum of your erotic self
Discover the many expressions of your sexuality — from soft, sensual and receptive to wild, powerful, untamed and erotic.
Give yourself permission to explore the parts of you that want to be felt, expressed and embodied.
You deserve to access your total eroticism. Step into your most embodied self.
WHAT YOU GET:
8 × 60-Minute Private 1:1 Sessions
Eight private, personalised sessions with me, held virtually throughout your eight-week experience.
These sessions give you dedicated space to explore what is arising for you, understand your unique sexual experiences and work towards the intimate life you want to create.
Your sessions may include:
Somatic Sex Coaching
Sexological education
Somatic exploration
Embodiment practices
Reflection and inquiry
Personalised coaching
Practical tools and practices to integrate into your everyday life
Every woman's journey is different, so every session will be tailored specifically to you.
There is no generic curriculum to work your way through.
This experience meets you where you are.
Transformation doesn't only happen during our sessions.
Throughout the eight weeks, you'll also have ongoing support from me, including:
Email support
Up to 3 WhatsApp messages per week
Personalised practices and homework
Guidance and reflection between sessions
This gives you a space to ask questions, share insights, process what is coming up and receive support as you integrate the work into your life.
Because the goal isn't simply to have profound insights during our sessions.
It's to create change that you can actually live.
THIS IS FOR YOU BECAUSE:
You're a conscious, high-achieving woman who is ready to invest in creating an intimate life that matches the quality of everything else you've created for yourself.
You're tired of tolerating, performing, faking or pretending in your sex life.
You're ready to embody authenticity rather than perform what you think sex is supposed to look like.
You're curious about your sexuality and want to understand yourself on a deeper level.
You want to feel wildly alive and deeply connected to your body.
You're ready to explore the depth and breadth of who you are as an erotic being.
You want greater clarity around your needs, desires and boundaries — and an unwavering confidence in expressing them.
You want to experience deep pleasure and feel entirely at home and comfortable in your body.
You're ready to explore the many expressions of your sexuality and erotic self.
You have a sense that there is more available to you and you're ready to discover what that is.
You don't need to have something "wrong" with you to do this work. You don't need to be struggling. You may simply have a sense that there is more available to you.
CHALLENGES WE WORK WITH:
The Embodied Erotic Experience may be supportive if you're navigating:
Loss or changes in sexual desire
Feeling disconnected from your body
Difficulty accessing pleasure or orgasm
Painful, uncomfortable or unfulfilling sex
Sexual shame or conditioning
Difficulty identifying or expressing your needs and boundaries
Lack of confidence in sex, intimacy, dating or relationships
Feeling disconnected from your sensual or erotic self
Recreating a nourishing sex life after significant life changes
A desire to feel more embodied, connected and alive within your sexuality
WHY CHOOSE RUBY:
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I offer a grounded, holistic and person-centred approach to sexuality.
I am an Accredited Sex Coach and Somatic Sexologist with five years of experience supporting women to reconnect with their bodies and feel more confident in their sexual expression.
My training and experience spans Somatic Sex Coaching, Somatic Sexology, sexological bodywork, embodiment, coaching, counselling and psychology, allowing me to offer an educated, diverse and holistic approach to sex, intimacy and relationships.
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I've supported hundreds of women to explore their sexuality, navigate sexual challenges, reconnect with their bodies and recognise their needs, desires and boundaries.
My approach is trauma-informed, grounded, compassionate and non-judgemental.
At the heart of my work is the belief that there is no prescribed version of what a woman's sexuality should look like.
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At the heart of my work is the belief that there is no prescribed version of what a woman's sexuality should look like.
Your sexuality is yours.
My role is not to tell you who to be, what to want or how to experience pleasure.
It is to create a safe and supportive space where you can become curious about yourself, explore what is true for you and develop a deeper relationship with your own body and sexuality.
My intention is to support you to feel liberated and erotically alive in your unique sexual expression, whatever that looks like for you.
THE INVESTMENT:
The Embodied Erotic Experience
$3,000 AUD
or
8 × weekly payments of $375 AUD
An intimate, supportive container dedicated to your growth and embodiment
8 weeks.
One-to-one.
Completely personalised to you.
No question is silly, this is a safe space.
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Somatic Sexology is a body-led and body-centred approach to understanding your sexuality.
It moves beyond traditional talk therapy by inviting you to feel rather than exclusively intellectualise your sexual experiences.
Somatic Sex Coaching incorporates principles from Somatic Sexology, Neo-Tantra and holistic coaching to create a safe and trauma-informed space for you to work towards your goals in the realms of sex, intimacy and relationships.
This approach provides practical and tangible tools and practices that support you to explore and integrate physical, mental and emotional patterns that may be preventing you from feeling like the most sexually liberated and erotically alive version of yourself.
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Not at all.
You may arrive with a very clear goal or challenge that you are facing, or you may simply know that something doesn't feel quite right and that you're ready for change.
Part of our work together can be discovering what you actually want and developing the language and awareness to express it.
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Ruby describes your erotic aliveness as your sparkle and turn-on for life itself.
It is the culmination of your awakened sexual, creative and sensual energy.
It is the desire and drive, not just for sex, to pursue the things in this life that turn you on.
Ultimately, it is your life force energy.
When you cultivate your erotic aliveness, you create more space for nourishment, fulfilment, creativity, pleasure and presence in your life.
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Absolutely.
You don't need to be in a relationship to explore your sexuality.
This work is fundamentally about your relationship with yourself, your body, your pleasure, your desires and your erotic expression.
Your intimate life begins and ends with you.
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Somatic Sex Coaching is a coaching and educational approach and is not a substitute for psychological therapy, medical care or other clinical treatment.
If something arises that is outside the scope of coaching, Ruby will recommend that you seek appropriate support from a relevant qualified professional.
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That's completely okay, and so normal.
You don't have to know whether Somatic Sex Coaching is right for you before reaching out.
Start with a Free Connection Call.
This is an opportunity to speak directly with Ruby, share what's going on for you, explore what you're wanting and ask any questions you might have.
Together, you'll explore your goals and whether this program feels aligned with what you need.
You can simply come as you are.