A grounded, holistic space to explore sex, intimacy, pleasure, and relationships without judgement. Through an integrated, trauma-informed approach drawing on Somatic Sexology, Neo-Tantra, and counselling, you’ll be supported to reconnect with your body, understand your desires and boundaries, and move through the challenges that may be limiting your sexual expression.

This work is about feeling more confident, connected, and liberated in the way you experience pleasure, intimacy, and yourself, with warmth, openness, and authentic expression at the centre.

WHAT WE VALUE

  • Safety is the foundation of Ruby Josif’s work. This brand creates a space where taboo topics can be explored without judgement, pressure, or performance. It allows women to feel held as they reconnect with their bodies, desires, boundaries, and intimate experiences in a way that feels steady, respectful, and deeply human.

  • Liberation is about helping women move beyond shame, conditioning, people-pleasing, and disconnection. It is not about becoming someone else. It is about returning to the parts of themselves they have muted, hidden, or intellectualised, so they can experience sex, intimacy, pleasure, and relationships with more freedom and self-trust.

  • Authenticity sits at the heart of the brand. Ruby’s work supports women to stop performing intimacy and start experiencing it honestly. This value invites women to express what they want, honour what they feel, communicate their needs clearly, and create intimate lives that reflect who they truly are.

RUBY’S QUALIFICATIONS:

  • IICT Accredited Somatic Sex Coach

  • IICT Accredited Sexological Bodywork Practitioner

  • Bachelor of Psychological Science and Counselling (third year), Australian College of Applied Professions (ACAP)

  • Spiritus Breathwork and Somatic Healing - Level 1 Facilitator Training, Tim Morrison

  • International School of Temple Arts (ISTA) - Level 1 “SSSex” Training

  • The Parasympathetic Restoration Technique® - Embodiment Practitioner Training, Wildgrace

A note from Ruby inspired by Australian author, Trent Dalton’s and his work, Love Stories:


I believe in enduring love, in love that transcends the threads of time and age and loss and pain. I believe in pleasure and orgasms that heal the most tender parts of us.

I believe in being either eternally overdressed or not dressed at all. I believe in feeling it all, letting life unravel us, and then burying our heads in our lover’s necks or our hands in garden soil to put us back together

I believe indancing often, and the miracle of dancing to music that awakens some forgotten thread within us. I believe that women are deeply powerful and our ability to feel is the very source of that power. I believe in soulmates and romance and that learning how to take responsibility for our patterns and behaviours makes these two things much easier to experience. I believe in eye contact, saying the vulnerable thing, wearing hearts on sleeves, shooting shots and growth through grief.

But most of all, I believe in you.

This is vulnerable work, it’s normal unsure about opening yourself up. Book a free call with Ruby to feel into the work at your own pace.

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WHAT OUR CLIENTS ARE SAYING:

Ruby is a beautiful coach and has brought so much clarity and healing into my life in our 6 sessions together. My relationship with myself has grown and developed so much during our container. Feeling much more connected to myself and my body.

— K

Ruby went above and beyond for me, making me feel comfortable and confident every step of the way. Having a sex coach was extremely out of my comfort zone but I can't recommend this experience with Ruby enough. She pours so much love and effort into your pleasure and confidence, it was apparent over the way she got so excited over any break through. She gave me the tools and knowledge to move fourth with my journey, and I will definitely reach out again should I need any further help with my sex life and relationship to self. She made me see sex in a totally different way. I would most definitely recommend her, you will not regret it and be overwhelmed with love and kindness in a beautiful container.

— B

I have been continuously working with Ruby in her 1:1 containers for the last year focussing on opening and reconnecting back to my womb and my woman. Her professionalism, grace, patience, depth and understanding within her work is nothing short of amazing. The guidance and safety she brings to holding me within these containers has been healing and expansive at the same time. She has helped me integrate my feelings of weakness, shame, guilt and abandonment of my womb, pleasure and my essence as a woman into love, curiosity, softness and power.

 — N

I chose to work with Ruby because I felt she could really ‘see’ me. Beyond the external layers so many people get fooled by, she can see the truth of who I am as a sexual and spiritual woman, and I knew I would be in safe hands. I trusted her ability to hold space, to hold a firm and well boundaried container where all of me was welcome, and what ever came up during a yoni massage would be ok. Our session with Ruby was a gift of love. One that has changed me as a woman, and put me in back touch with my deep self love, sexuality and power.

 — E

I feel so much more in my body, have developed a much stronger relationship with myself AND have attracted in the most loving and special man. Ruby is so knowledgeable and supportive and I couldn’t recommend her enough!

— E

For the first time, my confidence as a woman was not something I had to strive to ‘achieve,’ but something that was gradually unveiled as the frost of my insecurities, fears, and smallness effortlessly melted right before my eyes. I am so grateful to have met this new, more confident, more embodied version of myself, and Evoke left me with the tools to continue expanding and delving deeper into this exploration, even after the container has ended.

— C

The amount of growth and acceptance I have built for myself whilst working with Ruby has been incredible! I felt incredibly happy and proud of myself when reading back through my goals I set for myself with her on my last session.

I have left this experience feeling so much more in touch with my wants, needs, and confident in my abilities to set boundaries with myself and others.

— A

Working with Ruby has genuinely changed my life. What started as a journey into intimacy has unfolded into something much bigger - her teachings on embodiment, sensuality, and the feminine have become a part of how I move through the world. I’m often surprised by how these tools show up in unexpected moments, helping me navigate challenges, relationships and even simple day to day things with more presence, awareness and acceptance of what is.

I never could have imagined how deep and far reaching this work would be. My greatest wish is that every woman has the opportunity to experience this kind of transformation.  

— A

I am single (and not sleeping with anyone) and haven’t been while working with Ruby. I had this desire to work with her but thought i really couldn’t because i wasn’t having ‘sex’, and you need to be in order to work with a sex coach, right!? Ohhh was i so wrong… 

The relationship I’ve grown and developed with myself during our container is magical and more than i could ever have imagined. 

My self pleasure and self love is 100x more connected , I’m in my body throughout day so much more (and out of head!) and I’ve developed more compassion & patience for myself. 

 — K

Ruby’s capacity to help me unfold and tap into my body, my womb and my yoni was nothing like I had ever experienced. I was able to melt into the journey and be totally unaware of anything else going on. The shifts and awareness it brought me to where I had been hiding, shamed and numb, and her ability to help me transmute that meant I am now connected to myself in an entirely different way. 

Thank you Ruby, from the bottom of my heart, your healing and medicine is one of a kind and I am forever grateful for you.

— C

Wow what a truly uprooting experience I had with Ruby. What was achieved in 6 weeks blows my mind. Ruby held so much space for me, whatever emotions I was experiencing. From tears to break through everything felt like such a celebration of love.

I loved the suggestive homework tasks Rubs left me with at the end of each session and there was always support between each session as blockages or thoughts came up.

I truly felt held with Ruby and cannot recommend her services enough.

I can't wait to continue my journey with the foundations we have worked on laying together.

 — H

I had an undeniable feeling I needed to attend a local dating event only 2 weeks after our last call. I met a man there who is now my boyfriend, and the most incredible man ever! He communicates openly and honestly, shares his emotions, reflects, meets my needs, and orgasms are happening on a regular basis and are amazing. 

I feel so grateful for our sessions, and truly feel my goals were met, plus the added bonus of an incredible partner which I wasn’t expecting. Now that I have this relationship it makes all the other experiences make complete sense. Like “ooooh this is how it’s meant to feel”.

— L

No question is silly, this is a safe space.

  • Somatic Sex Coaching and Sexology offer a holistic approach to understanding your sexuality through the connection between your body, emotions, nervous system, relationships and lived experiences.

    Rather than focusing only on the mind or trying to “think” your way through a sexual challenge, somatic work invites you to develop a deeper awareness of what is happening in your body and learn how to create greater safety, choice, pleasure, confidence and connection.

    This work can support you to move beyond patterns that may be keeping you disconnected from your body, your sexuality or your relationships, and toward a more embodied and empowered experience of yourself.

  • Ruby works with a range of sexual, relational and embodied challenges. This may include difficulties with intimacy, desire, arousal, pleasure, orgasm, body confidence, sexual confidence, boundaries, communication and feeling safe or present during intimacy.

    Ruby also works with people who may not have a specific “problem” but know they want to experience more pleasure, confidence, eroticism, connection and freedom in their sexuality.

    The work is highly individualised and is centred around understanding your unique experiences, patterns and goals rather than applying a one-size-fits-all approach.

  • Yes. Ruby offers 1:1 work for women who are ready for deeper support and transformation.

    1:1 mentorship provides a more personalised container to explore your sexuality, embodiment, relationships and the patterns that may be influencing how you experience yourself and intimacy.

    Depending on your goals, this may involve somatic practices, education, reflection, embodiment work, nervous-system awareness and personalised support between sessions.

  • Ruby primarily exclusively works with women who are seeking a deeper, more embodied relationship with their sexuality.

  • Somatic Sex Coaching is not psychotherapy or psychological therapy. It is an educational and coaching-based approach that explores sexuality, embodiment, relationships, pleasure and patterns within the body.

    Where appropriate, Ruby may recommend working alongside a qualified psychologist, psychotherapist, medical practitioner or other healthcare professional.

  • Not at all.

    You don't need to be experiencing a sexual dysfunction or relationship difficulty to benefit from this work. You may simply feel that there is another level of pleasure, confidence, intimacy or self-expression available to you.

    Many people seek support because they want to feel more connected to their bodies, understand their sexuality more deeply or expand their capacity for pleasure and intimacy.

  • Your experience will depend on the offering and your individual goals.

    Sessions and mentorship may include conversation, education, somatic exploration, reflection and practices designed to help you develop greater awareness and choice within your body and sexuality.

    This is collaborative work. You are never expected to share or explore anything that does not feel appropriate for you.

  • Ruby's approach is grounded in body awareness, nervous-system education, consent, choice and creating a sense of safety within the work.

    Somatic approaches can be particularly valuable for understanding how past experiences may continue to influence the way we relate to our bodies, sexuality and intimacy.

    However, Somatic Sex Coaching is not a substitute for trauma therapy or mental-health treatment. Where deeper therapeutic support is required, an appropriate referral may be recommended.

  • Conversation is an important part of the work, but you are always in charge of what you choose to share.

    The intention is to create a space where you can explore your experiences without judgement, pressure or shame. The work is guided by your goals, your boundaries and what feels supportive for you.

  • Yes. Your privacy and confidentiality are treated with care and respect. Any specific terms, limitations and policies around confidentiality will be outlined as part of your engagement with Ruby.

  • The best place to start depends on what you're looking for and the level of support you need.

    If you're seeking a deeper, personalised experience and are ready to invest in meaningful change, Ruby's 1:1 work and mentorship may be the most appropriate pathway.

    If you're unsure where to begin, get in touch and Ruby can help you determine the best next step.

  • Ruby's private 1:1 and mentorship offerings may require an application or conversation before you begin.

    This allows Ruby to understand what you're looking for, answer any questions you may have and determine whether the work is the right fit for both of you.

    Explore the available ways to work with Ruby or get in touch to start the conversation.

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